Many hope that more money will bring them more chances for love, but I may as well tell that it is far from being the right recipe. More money increases, indeed, the life quality, but it does not guarantee love. Experiencing love is related to how much we allow ourselves to feel.
I like what Richard Bandler says on the theme of love: " all love stories end in tragedy", the most important part is that you lived a love story. It is true, even in the ideal case the two get married, one of the two will die first. Therefore the fear that it is going to end should never frighten you and stop you from being with someone you like. I may sound cynical to you, yet that's the truth, and this truth will set you free from your fears and you'll relax and allow yourself to feel love.
Unfortunately, too many people close their options of feeling love again just because they were disappointed. It is a faulty way of seeing things. You have the chance to feel love again only if you allow yourself, as I have already mentioned.
Richard Bandler also said that "you need to kiss many frogs in order to find a prince/princess". It is really no problem if you were disappointed or turned down, it simply gives you the chance to find a better person for you. At the same time, in order to find the right one for you, it is vital to think about how you would like him or her TO BE and not how you would NOT, because the subconscious mind, which plays an important role in helping you find the right partner, does not compute negation, so if you think at what you do not wish, you should not be surprised if you get the same type of partner.
At the same time, there are people for whom we have an incredible chemical attraction, but no other common points, and there are others we initially feel nothing for and we discover later on that we have many common ideas with and we start feeling attracted to.
Do you want love? Allow it! Do not fear disappointment, if you get love, you will also get disappointed or sad, it is part of the equation and a sign that you also had the good part. It is also important to go back in the past and admit there were also good times. No, it does not mean you should get back together with your ex, simply change the way in which you regard things in order to allow what's best to get into your life.
In conclusion, love is a state of consciousness and can be accessed anytime for any partner, you simply need to let yourself feel it. As a result, relax and feel good, and it is possible that you will kiss one or two frogs on the way to your great love, but it does not mean it can't be fun. And to paraphrase someone who said that there is somebody for you somewhere in the world, I would add that, statistically speaking, there are probably hundreds of millions of people you are compatible with, all over the globe. All you need to do is be willing to find one for you!
If you liked my article, you might also like the chapter LOVE AND ROMANCE from the book HAPPINESS GUIDE FOR BEGINNERS as well as the articles:
http://stefanabalan.blogspot.ro/2013/08/real-love-is-not-like-in-hollywood.html
http://stefanabalan.blogspot.ro/2013/07/when-love-dies-how-to-accept-idea-of.html
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